REALLY.....

  I seen on Facebook like yesterday that at a FAMILY event in Chicago, Ill. Trojan will be giving away vibrators!! Are you freaking kidding me? At a family event, it would be different it the was titled as an adult event.  Then the parents that tae their kids there are morons. LOL
  For Trojan to have them displayed on a cart  and a sign that says Free Vibrator Giveaway Today is unnecessary and totally irresponsible for the corporation.  What about the parents choice of the appropriate time and place to educated their children about sex? And what if they don't want their 13 year old to learn what a dildo is at this time?! (Yes they are still out there, I have one)  I don't understand why adults thinks things like this are okay and I do not like the way the future of our country (well human race actually) is headed.  Does no one have any dignity and self-respect anymore? Am I a prude because I prefer not to talk about my sexual relations to people?  I understand times change and people change, but why does that have to involve the innocence of our children?! Why allow society to take the one thing we try to preserve until the very last day it's in our control because they can?  Where is our right to take our children to family events without the threat of exposing our children to adult material?  Why do we have to adjust our way of life so corporations are advertise whatever the hell they want? 
  I just don't find this fair to the parents that work hard in preserving the innocence of their children and wanting to educate them on their own terms! We cannot allow society to dictate to us when and where our children will be exposed to material that I not age appropriate.  The parents have the choice, not society.
  My children ask me questions and I do not lie to them, but I do answer with an explanation that is age appropriate and guess what?!! They understand what I told them, are totally satisfied with my answer, and move on or have a follow up question ;)  The information may not be what some would like us to tell our children, but the thing is they are ours, not theirs.  If they want to give a child false information and mislead them because they think it's best, then by all means go have your own child!
 
Until next time I leave you with this..... Fitting in is not the way to live your life, being your own person is the way to go. Help your child become the best version of his or herself, not a replication of someone else.